Seems right now our life is all about waiting.
I'm waiting for the birth of our son. And so I can get about as physically normal as I can. Right now I'm out on long term disability. With this pregnancy I have had so many complications. So much trouble with my back. I hate it. I can't do anything. I can't sit or stand too long without being in lots of pain. I can't even drive more than 30 min away from the house or I have severe back spasms. If I'm not up all night in pain then our son is kicking the mess out of me.
We are going back and forth between three dr. The reg ob, the high risk specialist, and chiropractor. The gp dr is as needed so far that has been four times this pregnancy. Every thing seems to be ok. Except this tooth that keeps getting infected. I need to remove it, but medicaid won't cover it. But it's a waiting game till we get the money to do so. As far as the baby goes he appears to be completely healthy. Weighs about 3lbs so he is in the 52% weight. Which is all good. Especially considering I've only gained about 5lbs.
We are also still waiting on Pawan work papers and green card. He has already done the biometrics. We did receive a letter saying it could take up to six months. It's been more than a month since the letter. I'm just going and praying he gets his papers soon. My disability runs out once our son is born. Pawan wants to work so much, but can't yet.
We are still waiting on our taxes to come back. Luckily we were able to claim him. That money is what we are going to use to float us until either one he gets his papers or two I can return to work. More than likely I will have to have a csection again. So I will be unable to return to work for a few weeks. My job has let me go but can't officially say that as of yet. They did leave me a voice mail starting that my Fmla had ran out and that the days I am now missing are counting against my occurrences. They are trying to get me to come in and voluntary quit. Not going to happen, coz I would loose my disability. All about waiting. At the end of this month we are going to try to move. Right now we are in a tiny tiny studio. I would like us to get into a new place and settled before our son is born. Hopefully everything will come together soon. Before July 17th I hope.
