So..how was our first day together in the US

               After the plane lands and you are together...then what? On the first day when we got close to home we ate at Taco Bueno. I went with the chicken fajitas. That way if there was something he didn't like he didn't have to put it on it. He like most of it.. Then we got home. I had to show him where everything was so he would have a general idea. He was tired and I had to go to sleep for I had to work in the morning. The first night was so hard he had me cut the ac up and no ceiling fan. I tossed and turned sweating up a storm. Eventually I woke up late. But as I was getting ready to go he wanted chia and needed some food. In India he had a gas stove top and here we use electric. So I got all of the ingredients that he needed out and showed him how to use the stove top. But as the chia started to boil, after just one min the tea pot cracked in half. So I had to hunt out the steel tea pot. And then he said he was hungry so I tried to tell him he could heat up some pizzas in the microwave but he didn't understand. So I had to show him. When I was on break at work I called to check on him and had to tell him how to use the microwave again. After I got home I took him to the 99 cents store to get any toiletries he might need. I took him out to eat at Spring Creek BBQ. He enjoyed the food. He really liked the pulled pork and bbq baked beans. So that was his first day!

How it feels to come to America by: Pawan

finally after more than 2 years ,i got visa on .... in August. to hear it we both became happy lot, obviously our friends n relatives also felt good for us, but it was lil sadness also coz my parents knew now i will have to go so far in USA in order to live with my wife,but it was happiness too coz we both lived so far for 2 years, finally i get book my tickets on sep 11 from New Delhi to DFW Dallas,USA. it was such a long n tired journey, but this journey would bring me to my love,so i really din't care much, so after 22 hrs i reached Dallas, Texas. after few hrs wait on her wait on airport she came to receive me,coz she lost her way n she was trying hard find location of airport on ph. when i saw her on airport she was in Indian outfit :) she was looking pretty.and now i m here in USA n happy to be with her. this country is huge and buildings are not close to one other,area is huge n density of population is less, Charlene n me we go for food n buy groceries everyday n its lot of fun n it refreshes mind too. so i m happy n blessed :)

I'm inpatient....and nervous

          So I did a lot of prepping for Pawan's home coming.  Especially when he had finished buying his ticket.I tried to clean the apt. I went to the doctor to get a clean bill of health and get on birth control. I want to have some alone time with my husband before we make another baby, since apparently we are fertile together after all we got pregnant in the only month we spent together. And I went to the dentist and got my teeth cleaned, cavities filled and two root canals. I've been feeling sick all week, one because of the meds from my teeth and I think the rest are my nerves messing with me. After two years and 4 months he is finally going to be here.And I hate how the house looks, I hate how fat I have become. I'm stressing for no reason all because it's his first time in the USA and its been soo long. One min I'm happy, the next I'm crying. I am going crazy here just waiting. I know once he is here then things will kinda calm down. (or at least I hope so) I'm excited and fearful at the same time. And I have no reason to be fearful, I know its just a bad case of the nerves. I guess I fear because I worry what if he isn't happy here or with me... All of these fears are running through my mind at the speed of light. We have been together for more than 3 years but I still worry. Sorry this is just how I'm dealing right now....impatiently waiting , waiting, waiting.....