Just an update

Well a lot had changed in the past few months. We got married Dec 11,2013 as per US law. We ended up with an unexpected surprise. I got pregnant not even two months after he got here. I'm due July 22,2014 with our second  child this time a son. I'm on an emotional rollercoaster but I'll cover that in another blog. Had a huge fight with my family on fb over me naming our son after his great grand father. The racism came out. Ive been out on fmla due to medical problems with this pregnancy. So we are yet in another test in our relationship. My short term disability should have kicked in a month ago, but prudential keeps wanting more and more proof. I hurt so bad at times Pawan has to do everything for me. Enough about me. Well Pawan has lost faith in his own people in the US. He came across a lot of bad ones, business owners mainly. It's so bad he wouldn't even let me listen to fun asia radio or watch my Bollywood movies. He's come to the thinking of never wanting to work for an Indian business ever. Pawan has fallen in love with bbq pulled pork. He can't seem to get enough of it. He's gotten away from eating his Indian food. Now it gives him terrible heartburn. I think I'm to blame on that one. I was raised not eating much spice because of my mom's food allergies. I can eat only a few items. On his papers we sent in everything but there is a hold up. See the funny thing us I made enough as one person to pull hin over here, but not enough for two people to keep him here. So they told me that we have to get him a co-sponsor. By my groups I'm in some of the other girls did too or knew someone who had to do the same. We have to march 23 to get the co-sponsor. My parents are doing it, but my dad is slow at doing things, he does things in his sweet owb time. So I fibbed to them to get him to hurry up. I hope it works. I love my parents to death. They have been helping us financially lil by lil. Other than that I've been selling everything I possibly can. Its been hard. But its just my luck. I know things will turn around, I just have to wait out the storm. God wouldn't give me something more than what I can handle. I've been slowly trying to get back on social media, i.e. youtube, blogger, instagram and am shock at some of the things I'm finding. For instance my YouTube has blown up. One video about 23k views. It was Devi's video. I posted it at the time for Pawan and his family. Im overwhelm with the support it has gotten. I know this blog has gotten long lol. So until next time