I know it's been a while to say the least since I last blogged. No I didn't drop off the face of the Earth though it seems like I did.I even put off my Youtube channel for a year.I basically took a break from all social media except Facebook.The reason at first was time with my husband.
He got here last Sept. and we needed some time together. After all we were apart 2 years and 4 months. Plus on top of that I wanted to show him different places and experiences. So that was the first two months. I made videos but just posted them to Facebook.
Then in late Nov we found out we were pregnant again. For those who don't know our story, we had a daughter on Feb 02,2012 who I named Devi. She passed 17 days after birth due to a bad heart.
On Dec 11,2013 we became legally married here in the US. We filed his paperwork shortly after to change his status.It took till just about a week ago for him to get that. The main reason for delays everywhere we were told by several immigration lawyers, was they took manpower off of the ones who came here legally and put them on deporting those who came here illegally. I kept check of it online every week,but they would say the same thing online and when I called. Saying they had till the end of August to complete it.
My main focus was on the baby of course.After loosing Devi, I had to make sure this baby was ok. The bad thing is in December my health deteriorated. When I had Devi they forced me into a c-section. Which later on it showed to have messed my upper back up, where they did the spinal tap.It was a rough c-section, I was strapped down to the table.The reason for that history is to explain the problem that came up this time.from her birth til November of 2013, I didn't see my chiropractor like I should have. When you have a c-section obviously the cut across your lower belly. Well as the cut flesh and tissues. They also cut nerves. Well my nerves didn't heal right and I didn't see my chiropractor who could help to make adjustment to work them to almost be back normal. Be it that, my sciatica nerve was pinched 90% of my pregnancy. So much that I had to go on long term disability. I couldn't walk hardly at all. I couldn't drive no more than 30 min at a time without being in severe pain. My three doctors had me on prescription pain killers and muscle relaxers. I got so bad I had to have Pawan to help me even go to the bathroom.It was so embarrassing that I had to use the electronic carts at the stores. If there wasn't one I couldn't even shop. I was covered on long term disability till I gave birth be it I couldn't sit nor stand for more than 30 min at the max. In the meantime my job that I had work for over four years, fired me in May. They told the unemployment office that I had voluntary quit. They say that or suspended until further notice to get out of unemployment pay. After having the hearing it was decided in my favor. But I can't collect til I am medically released back to work.
On July 12,2012 at 4:45 am my water broke.I had been having braxton hicks contractions for days but wasn't even dilating.9:30 am just dilated a fingertip.The ob said that my cervix basically sucked. It was very think and barely in-faced. And it was sitting way high behind the placenta. She said if I wanted to do a VBAC I could try till four pm. But we decided to go a head with a gentle c- section. At 12:04 pm on July 12, 2014 we welcomed our son Ranger Ernest Ram into the world. He was healthy and perfect. He weighed 6 lbs and 5 oz and was 19 inches long.In one months time he got to weigh 9 lbs 8 oz and grew to 21 3/4 inches long.
Now you are all caught up lol. I'm going to be working on other blogs as well. I already have a weight loss one which I will be starting back up and I will start a baby/mommy blog here in a few days.Maybe a few blogs on Rainbow babies and dealing. A lot of us with rainbow babies have been talking about this lately.
He got here last Sept. and we needed some time together. After all we were apart 2 years and 4 months. Plus on top of that I wanted to show him different places and experiences. So that was the first two months. I made videos but just posted them to Facebook.
Then in late Nov we found out we were pregnant again. For those who don't know our story, we had a daughter on Feb 02,2012 who I named Devi. She passed 17 days after birth due to a bad heart.
On Dec 11,2013 we became legally married here in the US. We filed his paperwork shortly after to change his status.It took till just about a week ago for him to get that. The main reason for delays everywhere we were told by several immigration lawyers, was they took manpower off of the ones who came here legally and put them on deporting those who came here illegally. I kept check of it online every week,but they would say the same thing online and when I called. Saying they had till the end of August to complete it.
My main focus was on the baby of course.After loosing Devi, I had to make sure this baby was ok. The bad thing is in December my health deteriorated. When I had Devi they forced me into a c-section. Which later on it showed to have messed my upper back up, where they did the spinal tap.It was a rough c-section, I was strapped down to the table.The reason for that history is to explain the problem that came up this time.from her birth til November of 2013, I didn't see my chiropractor like I should have. When you have a c-section obviously the cut across your lower belly. Well as the cut flesh and tissues. They also cut nerves. Well my nerves didn't heal right and I didn't see my chiropractor who could help to make adjustment to work them to almost be back normal. Be it that, my sciatica nerve was pinched 90% of my pregnancy. So much that I had to go on long term disability. I couldn't walk hardly at all. I couldn't drive no more than 30 min at a time without being in severe pain. My three doctors had me on prescription pain killers and muscle relaxers. I got so bad I had to have Pawan to help me even go to the bathroom.It was so embarrassing that I had to use the electronic carts at the stores. If there wasn't one I couldn't even shop. I was covered on long term disability till I gave birth be it I couldn't sit nor stand for more than 30 min at the max. In the meantime my job that I had work for over four years, fired me in May. They told the unemployment office that I had voluntary quit. They say that or suspended until further notice to get out of unemployment pay. After having the hearing it was decided in my favor. But I can't collect til I am medically released back to work.
On July 12,2012 at 4:45 am my water broke.I had been having braxton hicks contractions for days but wasn't even dilating.9:30 am just dilated a fingertip.The ob said that my cervix basically sucked. It was very think and barely in-faced. And it was sitting way high behind the placenta. She said if I wanted to do a VBAC I could try till four pm. But we decided to go a head with a gentle c- section. At 12:04 pm on July 12, 2014 we welcomed our son Ranger Ernest Ram into the world. He was healthy and perfect. He weighed 6 lbs and 5 oz and was 19 inches long.In one months time he got to weigh 9 lbs 8 oz and grew to 21 3/4 inches long.
Now you are all caught up lol. I'm going to be working on other blogs as well. I already have a weight loss one which I will be starting back up and I will start a baby/mommy blog here in a few days.Maybe a few blogs on Rainbow babies and dealing. A lot of us with rainbow babies have been talking about this lately.
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